chrisinseattle ([info]chrisinseattle) wrote,
@ 2009-11-02 09:15:00
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JUST WANNA LET YOU KNOW
There are times when I feel down.. and just do not want to talk to anyone.. I need my friends to understand that.. if I am in one of those moods.. that No matter what they say.. No matter what they do.. it does not help.. and just because you want to help and want to talk.. does not mean I am ready or want to..it actually makes it worse.. It has nothing to do with you as a friend.. it has nothing to do with how much you want to help.. It’s that I need space.. I need to be alone.. whether it is for 1 hour 1 day or 3 hours or 3 days.. Or however long it takes.. I need that time.. IT DOES NOT MEAN I DO NOT WANT TO BE FRIENDS.. IT DOESN’T MEAN THAT I DON’T CARE.

IF YOU TAKE IT AS THAT.. IM SORRY.. BUT I CANT CHANGE THAT PART OF IT..

Just try to understand.. that it has nothing to do with you .. and I appreciate that you want to help.. but that’s not how it works for me..

Hugs to you all..

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[info]dapirate
2009-11-02 05:28 pm UTC (link)
STOP SMOTHERING ME! :)

I know exactly what you mean. Some things just need to be worked out internally, not externally.

*hugs*

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[info]jesus_h_biscuit
2009-11-02 06:15 pm UTC (link)
Sweetness, I understand this perfectly - and you're totally entitled to having that time to yourself.

Just be mindful that when you post things that your friends will see that explicitly state how down you are, people want to come running - so when you don't want that, take responsibility to not post about it publicly or at least make the posts private and for your eyes only. That way, you bypass it and no one will be put in a position to worry, and you get your space without the bombardment of others who mean well trying to be there.

You're not responsible for how others respond to you, only how you respond to them - and a little forethought in cases like these eliminates the headache before it starts.

I send you love & good energy!

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[info]seeker2
2009-11-02 06:23 pm UTC (link)
HUGS - when you're ready to hang again shout eh? I still miss ya and stuff.

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[info]badrobot68
2009-11-02 08:50 pm UTC (link)
I understand that very much.

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